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Message from: Sarah, 24 Feb 06

Subject: Trying to move on but can't

My cousin died nearly 2 years ago but i still feel like there were things i never got to say to him, and i regret that. I keep going over the last time i saw him in my mind and wished i would have told him how much he meant to me. Now anytime i have an argument with someone i get scared i might say something i might regret later. I'm trying to move on but its hard trying to live with the feeling of guilt and regret.

Subject:i know how you feel

my brother died nearly 2 yrs ago and the last time i saw him i had an argument with him. I moved to london and didnt like it so i moved back 5 days later my brother died. i never got 2 tell him i was sorry for what i said or anything. But you cant change anything that has happened or you said the only thing you can do is remeber the good times, maybe write him letters, i do i have a book and it really does help, when you miss him the most or are really hurting write him a letter as if he will actually read it, it doesnt take the pain and anger away but it does help alot. Nothing you do will bring him back but you can make it easier on your self!