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Message from: rosie,18 Feb 06

Subject: still hurts

my dad died four months ago now and the pain is still very raw i cry less but still feel so alone i sometimes feel like the rest of the world has carried on without me and they have all forgotten about my dad even his girlfriend is now pregnant by one of my dads friends this all just adds to the pain and i'm not sure how to deal with it how can people just forget about someone so quickly i miss my dad every day i find myself just thinking of him at the strangest times and small things remind me of him the pain will probably never end but at least while i'm still in pain i can remember him even the small things these are the things i hope to keep forever life will never be the same for me

Subject: your dad, my dad

hello rosie.
i was touched when i read your message,why?well my dad too passed away on 25th april 2005.so nearly a year ago,
and now im still on antidepressants,and life is hard,he died quickly and suddenly,its still hard to accept it.
i wont say that time is a great healer,people have said that to me and i think its wrong,but what i will say is talk to people,maybe your doctor,its important to talk bout your feelings and you have to remember the good time you had with your dad,its hard i know,
also,you are his daughter so you can help the legacy of you dad live on and that is through you,
you take care
and try to smile,its hard but we all have to try,message me back.
take care
kate

Subject: Hey

my dad died on 24th april last year and i feel exactly the same. i havent stopped grieving, im not sure ive really started, but people seem to have moved on and i dont want them too. My parents were divorced and i feel like i cant talk to my mum. even my brother seems to be moving on. sometimes i want to yell at him and ask why hes not upset, he probably feels the same way i do though. How are you guys coping? message back xxxx