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Message from: Sophie, 01 Feb 06

Subject: i need some help

Its been 10 months since my dad died and i still dont know what to do. I dont think ive really accepted it. Ive only just started talking about it, and its really hard. i go to the pub when i go to work and i imagine him sitting there, i hear him laughing. I dont even know why hes not here anymore, im not sure i really want to know. My friends Dad died too, i see him everyday and winder how long it will be until im happy again. It just doesnt seem fair, i look around at school and wonder, why me? surely i didnt do anything to deserve this, must have been hitler in a past life or something. I cant even talk to anyone about it, they all seem to have moved on. All i want is to be happy and make him proud. i jus wish i had another chance to tell him i love him and to say goodbye, so i love you daddy, goodbye, please look down on me. and somebody please give me some advice on how to cope. xx

Subject:i no

sophie i kind of no how u feel my bro. died 6 moths ago he got shot by a man who probably had no thought 2 wat he was doing he probably had no confedence in himself at all or he wouldnt have shot my bro.

Subject: (no subject)

u r not alone my dad died nearly 4 yrs ago. wen he died my life turned upside down. i go 2 college, but wen he died i was in yr 10 at skool. i still miss miss him and i always will. and i hope that those that hav lost loved ones never forget, because it never helps. i tried 2 forget but it only ends up hurtin more never. if it helps try and remember the good. never give up onlife, i tried, more than once, but people are reasonable, just talk 2 those who u r closest. people may move on, but they never forget and it helps 2 talk and just remember u r not alone in this world, there r people who hav gone thru the same as u! no matter wot u do in life he will always b proud of u, never think n e different.

Subject:i understand

hi sophie.

i just wanted to say i completely understand how you feel my dad died just coming up to 3 years ago now. it took me ages to accept what had happened. to be honest you cant put a time on how long it will take for you to get happy again, one day you'll wake up and it'll feel a little easier then the day before and you've just got to focus on all the good times you had together. some days its easier then others, and alot of the times its easier said then done. its natural to think why me? and i dont think there is an answer, and i dont think that anyone deserves what you have gone through.

take care sophie and try to saty strong.

if you need to talk im here to listen
nicky xx