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message no. 956
| Message from: april,
28 Jan 06 |
| Subject: grandad
I lost my Grandad before he died but i still knew he loved me,
see i hate to admit but my grandad was a alcoholic for a long
time and just months before he passed away he became rude and
abuseive to my Nan and it just wasn't the same but i knew he still
loved me, nan, and everyone. A few months on he went into hospital
and i went to see him as i walked into the room i stopped stood
there walked back out and cried, then i did'nt go bk in until
the next day i though i shud be strong for my nan, he could'nt
open his eyes or even speak it was so upsetting, All of his organs
started to fail and then 5 days later he died, i sank into depression,
funeral past, still think of him everyday, his ashess are in the
back garden were he liked to go and also in the devon sea were
we all went for 16 years, i always hope that he's watching me,
that what keeps me going. miss you grandadx x x x x x love your
darling april.
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Reply from:wendy
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Subject: grandad
hi there know exactly how you feel my grandad passed three days ago im so lost i miss him so much he had a massive stroke and didnt know us at the end its so hard im here if you need a friend .......
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Reply from: sara
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Subject: grandad
My grandad died in 2005. this seems like ages ago, but it's not. he was one of the biggest and brightest people in my life- someone who knew the answer to everything. Sometimes i can't believe he's gone. I've had dreams about him over and over again, where my nan tells me he's gone. I wake up to go and tell my mum, but before i can I realise he really has gone. But it makes it easier if you know and do what would have made him happy. my grandad was the funniest person I know, and sometimes when i do something right I stop and think how proud he would have been of me. then I feel a bit better. keep your chin up, look on the bright side and remember what he would have wanted. It makes it easier. xx
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| Reply from: April |
Subject : Grandad
Thanks for those messeges there really helpfull its now been two years since my grandad's gone, i can still remember the day, and the month that he died my friend was knocked down by a car a week after my grandads death and then on my friends funeral day my great aunt died the worst month ever, but thats two years ago and things are a bit better but i still think about my grandad every day, sad i'm planning on getting married in year 09,and i've got a beautiful daughter called cara, i know he was there to
see her and look after me i know i could feel him. xxx thnkyou |
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