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Message from: charles, 28 Jan 06

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My wife died in october She was 45 . I still greive very much but I am worried about my dauther who is 16 . she dose not seem to show her emostion I need advice

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Dear Charles Thank you fro your email and I am sorry to hear of your loss. It is still very early days, and everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. You have sent a message through the young persons website, which would be helpful for your daughter to look at, as she can communicate with other young people in similar situations to herself. For adults we have the following website www.cruse.org.uk and the email address is helpline@cruse.org.uk. If you would like any leaflets please let me know and we can send them to you as soon as possible. I hope this information helps you and your daughter. Regards RD4U Team

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Im 16 years old too and lost my Dad last year in april. im only just starting to accept what has happenned and have only just started opening up and talking about it. I know death affects everyone differently but just be there for your daughter, she will come to you when shes ready. Good Luck.

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when i was 5 my dad passed away and then later on in life my step dad died of cancer when i was 13. for 5 years i bottled it up and i got to the stage when i got really depressed. My best mate helped me through it and i helped him because his mum just died. What i'm trying to say is that your daughter is keeping her feelings to herself, she will come to you in time but she may talk to her friends about it. I couldn't talk to my mum about it because it didn't feel right. I hope everything sorts itself out for you and your daughter.