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Message from: Hannah C, 14 Jan 05

Subject: Why??

Hi
I have written on here before but like most of you i only have one question and that is WHY? My dad was murdered when i was only 11 months old so I never got the chance to know him, spend a birthday with him , talk to him, love him, hug him, smell him. all the things my friends take for granted seem so important to me. I sit in the common room at school and looka round and think WHY ME. why not her or her or her and it goes on. People who no offer sympathy but they have no idea what it feels like. I would give anything to see my dad so i could remember it. I am sure lots of people have the same question to ask. I dont need help but i want to help people. If you are upset talk to me if you miss your loved one talk to me. My dad was only 25 when he was shot so I understand most peoples grief. All my love stay strong xxxx

Subject: Dad

Hi there, i was so sorry to hear what happened to your Dad - i to lost my Dad 7 months ago different circumstances but we both have lost someone dear to us - i to think why me, and why not somebody else - its hard to come to terms with death, i find it very hard as its my first major bereavement, over and above my Mum is in a home with Alzheimers......my thoughts are with you and hope everything gets better for you. -X-