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Message from: Starrydancer, 19Dec 05

Subject: Dont even miss him

Does anyone else not feel sad at all that someone died. My dad died but i don't even miss him even though i did love him a lot. I just carry on like nothing has happpened, except for I know that it did. I get jelous when people can cry about their lost ones and I feel that I am not normal.
Does anybody else feel this way?

Subject:(no subject)

i do feel the same way my mum died on the 14th october 2005 and grandad died 14th december 2005 and i feel like i dont miss them and i just try and get on with my life like u are

Subject:I don't either

My brother died just over a month ago and like you I smile and laugh and carry on as if nothing has happened. I feel gulity that I'm not crying or upset. I do sometimes cry but I dont know what I'm crying for. I just feel empty. I dont feel loss although I miss him, I dont feel anger although I'm upset. I am just numb, so no your not the only one.

Subject:(no subject)

I was the same as you lot where and didnt grieve properly when i lost my mum but three years on i am now so dont worry everybody grieves and deals with things differently