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Message from: laura, 05 Dec 05

Subject: with out my brother!!

I LOST MY BROTHER ON THE 9TH OF AGUST 2004.I DID NOT GET CHANCE TO SAY GOOD BYE!MY BROTHER WAS 14 YEARS OF AGE AND HE HUNG HIM SELF.I AM 14 YEARS OLD NOW I TURNED 14 ON THE 25TH OF NOVEMBER. I AM SO LOST WITH OUT MY BROTHER CAN ANY ONE HELP ME AND TALK TO ME TO KEEP MY MIND OF THINGS . THANKS EVERY ONE WHO KEEPS IN TOUCH WITH ME XXXXXXXXXXX

Reply from: lils

Subject: i lost my brother 2

its horrible isnt it. i didnt say goodbye to my brother either he got hit by a car. he was 21. i am 14 he was the best big brother. he always made me laugh abd smile and it is just no the same without him. people say it gets better i spose it does but deep down in your heart it will never be the same. hope your coping well.xxxxxxxxx

Reply from:Liam

Subject: (no subject)

Hi Laura,Im sorry to hear about your brother,it must be very hard for you.If you want to talk to someone then you can call chjildline on 0800 1111 or call samaritans on 08457 90 90 90(local call rates apply) you can e-mail them at jo@samaritans.org and you could also go to www.winstonswish.org.uk
Hope that has been some help to you x x x

Reply from:Charlotte

Subject:I lost my brother too

You may have seen my message I have just posted it. I lost my brother a few weeks ago he was hti by a car and was 15. I dont have any other brothers or sisters and just feel lost and lonely without him. I still cant really take it in that he has gone i guess im still slightly in denile. Are you an only child now too?

Reply from: ellie

Subject:i know how u feel

my brother died on september 3rd 2004. im 18 he would be 21, it was just after he turned 20. he died in a car accident. i know it isnt the same but my brother was my best friend. i miss him so much. i started a little diary thing, when i really really miss him, i write in it, like im writting him a letter, i tell him how i feel, my thoughts everything, even what i have been doing, stuff about my friends and family, i know he cant right back but it helps writing it down, that way you can go back and loook at all the stuff that you would of shared with him if he was alive.he knows you love him, i didnt get to say goodbye 2 my brother and i had a big argument with him before he died. its been over a year now, it does get easier but your memories never fade.

Reply from: Charlotte

Subject: Best Friend

My brother was my best friend too. I am doing the same as you, Ellie, writing to him in a diary and it really helps me too, its great to know that others are going through the same. Im so sorry you didnt get to say goodbye, my brother was off to sea cadets when he got hit by the car , he wanted to join the navy. I said goodbye to him but expecting him to come back. It's so comforting to know that there are other I can talk to.

Reply from: ebony
Subject : brother
hi..
i lost my brother 2 i never stop thinking about him but i try to stop myself from crying, normally talking to other people about his death makes me cry and then once i have cried i get on with my life. just remember he will look down on you and he wont want to see you sad. i sometimes talk to my brother who died i talk to him at his grave or i talk to him through the sky and when im in bed i look at the ceiling and i think about how happy he might be in heaven.sometimes talking about it can make it better. I hope this might give you an idea of something you could do to make it better.I hope you begin to feel happier. from ebony

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