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Message from: Linda, 31 Oct 05

Subject: Learing to live with it

Hi, to everyone out there that has lost somebody close.
All i can tell you is as the old adage goes, time is a great healer.
I don't know if this is exactly the right thing to say, but it is my experience.
I lost both my parents a while ago now, my dad about 14 years ago. my mother even longer 19 years ago.
I miss them both terribly.
I also find it strange that although i never had a really good relationship with my mum, it is her i think about more than my dad.
You learn through the years that you cannot change that which is past.
I really do feel sometimes that if only i had another chance to talk to them both that......
Well who knows?
I just know god had something planned, and we just have to live with this.
I know that mum and dad are looking over me now, i feel their prescence everyday. They now know my innermost secrets, something i could probably never had shared with them in my life time, but hey, we will see them again in the next life.I am sure of this.
I am not a devout church goer i just go by what my senses tell me,
And i know my loved ones are looking down at me
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They make me feel safe and i know that when my time comes i will meet them all again in the great hereafter.