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Message from: jenny, 19 Oct 05

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heya to all u i lost me dad when i was 12 iam going to be 16 next month i want some help please iam really thinkin hard about wat to do i want to comit suicide to be with my dad i no where and when can anyone help me i have a loving family and great friends who don't want me to leave its just a great big circle cause i can't win either way what should i do

Subject:Help line

Hi jenny
Think how much stress and pain you would put your family and friends through if you comit suicide. I know it must be very difficult but try and hold your head up high and keep going. I promise you life will get better as you get older.
It might help to talk to a professional. Tell me what you think...
bye for now
Holly

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Jenny, I lost my dad when I was 16, I'm now 23. I know that it's hard to accept and you want to see your dad again. This is not the best way out though. Try and remember the good times you had. I know my pain is still raw, talk to your family, you might find someone is feeling the same as you. Then you'll have someone to work through this with. Hope you are okay. Vickie

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Hello Jenny,
I read your message and really feel for you, you must be going through hell. It is a terrible thing to lose a parent, be a teenager and feel depressed. I was depressed at your age becase of my childhood and I couldn't imagine life getting any better. In time, it does, although different problems will arise in life which may set you back.
There are lots of web sites and helplines for young people and those who are bereaved.
Talk to your doctor about being referred to a counsellor aswell, it can help enourmously.
Make the most of your family and friends who care about you, I never had that when i were your age, my family were my enemy, you are very lucky to have people who care about you.
Concentrate on the good things in life, follow your dreams and aspirations, your father would be proud of you.
I'm here if you want to talk,
Love,
Kairen.

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if you wanna talk sometime let me know!

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Hey there. I lost my Dad just over 2 months ago, and I'm 14. Suicide seems to be a way out, trust me - I know. But I always think, that my Dad wouldn't be happy with me if I did it, and I'd feel so horrible leaving everyone else behind. I'm not sure on how to say anything, because I don't know how it feels after a year or so. I just know that it's hard, but you've got to try and stay strong. Take care,
Ellie. xxx

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I really do feel for you Ellie!I know how it feels to lose someone you love it hurts.If you commit suicide the people who love you are going to feel the heartache that you feel for your dad!
Please do take care and look after yourself!!
So i hope you dream beautiful dreams and fly in clouds of happiness in your sleep for the waiting of tommorrow xxxxx

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Don't do it. it's not right you have to think about your dad would he want you to do that please think take care love hattiexxxxxxxxxx

Subject: Daddys gone

Hi love your heart aches the days go on 4eva what is your purpose in life? Well your Dad is watching ova you Dads being Dads will be tryin to protect you. Im sure his heart will be achen to know your feeling the way you are at the moment. Im absolutely positive he would like you to live on. And that would keep him happy seeing you reach your milestones. He would wait untill you reach a lot older age. To see you. When you were born he would have pictured you living life school, job, may b a man friend & kids [his grandkids] he would have been ova the moon 2 c. But now hes gone & can only live life through you. You will b with him again but do wait.When you think of him tell him you love him {as Im sure he loves you still} and give him a hug.Its oky to do that.May be in the year 2065 he will come down & take you himself. [when hes ready]