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Message from: Caz, 17 Oct 05

Subject: 2 of my mates died

Hi, im new 2 this. 2 of my friends, Laura & Heather, died in a car crash 27th Feb 04, it was 3days before Laura's 14th birthday. Both of them were just 13 and their lives were taken. I dont know why. I grieved alot afterwards and i still am. I write poems about the night they died and i still cry at night. If anyone wants 2 write back please do. I'm always up for talking to new people and u could help me deal with what happened. I still think what if this had been different, people say i couldn't have changed things but i think perhaps i could :( I miss them so much and Laura was my best mate. Caz


Reply from:nicola

Subject:so sorry

Hi I am so sorry to hear about your friends it must be really hard. I hope you take some comfort in what I am about to say. I lost my mum nearly 4 weeks ago now she was 69 years old and it was quite sudden and I was thinking like you if only I could have done something. It was just meant to be. The same with you. I know its no consolation but it was meant to be for your friends hope this message helps. Take care

Reply from: Caz

Subject:Thanks

Hi nicola, thanks 4 ur posti know i shouldn't blame myslef but its just something i can't help, i guess ur right it was meant 2 be, but i don't understand why =( If anyone it should have been the driver, he's only got 7years in prison which is half the years Laura and Heather got to live! =( If u wanna tell me about ur mum u can =) Write back and thankx again
Caz xx

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