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Message from: Nicola, 12 Oct 05

Subject: my mum died

My mum died on the 22nd September 2005 after a long illness it is just so hard coming to terms with it. We did everything together we were like mother and sister not mother and daughter. I have a pain in my chest cause of the loss. I loved her so much and I am really going to miss her it is such a horrible feeling.

Subject:Don't worry

Hey, i lost my mum nearly 2 years ago. we were close too and i always think about her. She died jus b4 christmas which made it seem worse i guess. The thing i noticed the most was everyone around me seemed to be movin on but i still missed her. As time went on, i realised it was ok i still missed her. A councilor told me that its always harder the second time round and this is sorta the 2nd christmas coming that ive really come to terms with it so kinda worryin a wee bit how things will go. x