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Message from: Adam, 03 Oct 05

Subject: My GF and the mother of my babies is dieing

You may have read are story be4 cause a mate told myself and my girlfriend about RD4U and Amy wote in. but i am wighting in because i really need help.

I have been best mates with amy from i was about 4. Then 2 years ago we started going out with eash other. Then last year amy found out she had canner and only had about 3 years to live. when i found out i could not belive it. Amy always talked about growin up have children and getin marred and i could belive that this was not goin to happing 2 her. so i told her i well make her dream happing. so we sat down and talked it over with our familys and and they sayed we can go a head. so on the 1st of sept 2005 God gave us the best gift of all two lovely twin girls. On the 15th feb Amy's 16th brithay i am goin 2 make Amy's Second dream come true we are gettin marred.I Told amy that eveything is going 2 be ok but its not i am sooooooo scard. please HELP ME. lots of love from Adam

Subject: Hi

i am 16 and i lost my dad when I was 11 months old so i never knew my dad. My mum bought me and my brother (2years older) up single handedly. I just want in some way for these to help you.
1) keep loads of photo albums for you twins to look at and everything like cards and anything to do with your girlfriend.
2) Try and let your children understand what a mum is (i went to school and didnt no what a dad was) and let them know how much she loved them.
3) encourage them to talk about their mum
My mum was not in the same position as my dad was murdered but I do hope this in someway helps you and your family because it is hard.
I think you are so brave and I hope you and your twins will have as much time as possible with your girlfriend. message back if you want to talk
love hannah xxxx

Subject: just wana say thanks

hi hannah
thanks for the lovely letter. im so sorry 2 here about ur dad my dad was killed when i was 2.
i just dont know how me and the girls are goin 2 live with out Amy. thanks for the gd tips Amys dad got us a vidio camra and i have been useing it all the time and Amy has left a message for the girl for when they get older. thanks again love from: Adam xo

Subject:Hi Adam

Please keep me updated as to how the situation goes. I am soo sorry bout ur dad aswell you have had a reeli tough time but u will get through it with the help of your two girls. love hannah xxxx

Subject:Hey Hannah

hey hannha
i hope u r keep well.
Amy had to go in2 hospitel for 2 weeks. but she is out now and she bot so bad now. she really is goin down hill. the doc says she has no longer then about 5 mothes 2 live. so she has left school 2 and the hole family is going away on a big holiday. i soooooooo dont know how i am going 2 live with out her.

Subject: my dad

I feel so sorry 4 u my dad died at the age of 30 but i never new he was going to die what r your girls called? my dad was called Martin.
lots of luv lauren.