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message no. 823
| Message from:
Sharon, 26 Sept 05 |
| Subject: Lost
Its 4months since my gran died, it would be her birthday today.
I havnt got a grave as she wasnt burried and there is no plaque
for her at the crem. I just feel so lost, i dont know what to
do, i havnt been able to go to work because i was a mess last
night. Some friends said i should buy a plant and put it in the
garden for her. But its not the same, i wish i had somewhere to
go to lay flowers and spend half an hour talking to her!
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Reply from: RD4U Team
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Subject:Message 4 u
Hi Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear about the recent death of your
gran. It is really hard if you don't have a grave or a plaque
at the crematorium to visit to feel close to her and just have
a chat. One thing that people sometimes do is to visit a place
where they have special memories of that person, that could be
a park or a cafe you went to together, anywhere where you might
feel close to her. You could also write her a letter and attach
it to a balloon or burn it and scatter the ashes somewhere special
to you. It's doing whatever you would feel ok doing and that would
help you to feel closer to her. Hope these suggestions have been
helpful and take care.
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