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Message from: anonomous, 24 Sept 05

Subject: any advice

Hello i am 23 years old and been with my boyfriend Jason for 7 years. i was carrying our first child we told every one at 10 weeks i was expecting. when we told jasons parents they went mad they said we were to young and she said i hope that there is no heart beat at your 12 week scan. so u dont have a baby
I had my scan on monday and the baby was dead. i am so upset now as jasons mum has but a spell on me!! we want to try again but worried but his mum will say?

Subject:SOME ADVICE

Hi, I am Helen, Its my first time on RD4U.
My advice is its yours and Jasons life so if you want to bring a child into this world go 4 it. I am so sorry to hear about your loss! but if you feel ready try again. if his parents dont like the idea its tough!
good luck

Subject: (no subject)

if u think that it will happen then it will cause of the stress be possitive. dont rush in to it take ur time. u cant replace what u have lost

Subject:SINCERE APOLOGIES

Firstly i wish to give you my sympathy. Death can be very hard to cope with, i also would like to say although i don't know you or your current relationship with your guys parents, remember always keep them on hand, you may feel they hate you, but it must of came to a shock to them as well, think about the future, parents can be cruel, but they are his parents, one day they may be your n' laws i believe you should make it your business to show them that you and him are in love and that you feel a child which you both equally want, will only tie you closer. think about that.