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Message from: Amy, 21 Sept 05

Subject: i'm dieing at that age of 15

hi every 1
my mum died of canner when i was 3 and i have never got over it.

then when last year i found out i had canner and i had only a few years 2 live.i could not belive it my dreams was 2 grow up and get have kids and get marred. when i told my bf he just cryed and sayed ur dream can still come trut. so when my dad sayed it was ok he went ahead. i now have 2 lovely littie twin girls at 3 weeks old and Adam as asked me 2 marry him so i am gettin marry on the 15th my 16th bday. its just hard to belive that i am not goin 2c my girls grow up but i know when it is my time to go that the girls well be loved bits. lots of love from amy xo

Subject: thats so sweet

Hi Amy
I jsust read ure message. I think that is really sweet of ure boyfriend. look after ureself and ure twin girls!! spend as much time with them as possable
take care xx

Subject:(no subject)

Hey, I just wanted to say that I think you're really strong. I don't think I would be able to cope in the way you have. When your twins grow up I'm sure they'll have so many people queueing up to tell them about their amazing mum. Keep going. I'll be praying for you.

Subject:Help for your boyfriend

Hi,
i am 16 and i lost my dad when I was 11 months old so i never knew my dad. My mum bought me and my brother (2years older) up single handedl and I just want to give yor fiancee some tips for when you are gone.
1) keep loads of photo albums for you twins to look at and everything like cards and anything to do with you.
2) Try and let your children understand what a mum is (i went to school and didnt no what a dad was) and let them know how much you loved them.
3) encourage them to talk about their mum
My mum was not in the same position as my dad was murdered but I do hope this in someway helps you and your family because it is hard.
I think you are so brave and I ho you can have as much tm with your children as possible.
love hannah xxxx

Subject:they know you love them

u may not see ur girls grow up but u will still b in there hearts. ur bf and family, friends and every person who knows u will tell ur daughters what they know and love about u that will make them realise how specail u r even if ur not there. noone can ever replace a family member and jus coz ur not there dont mean they wont no u.u have to b strong for the girls they will sence somethings wrong otherwise good luck xxx

Subject: thats sooo g8

i think that you are soooooooooo brave. And i'm really really sorry about your mom but just remember that your life isn't over and you can fight the cancer and you will get through it and if you don't then im sure your 2 girls will grow up to be gr8 kids so make it worth while and good luck to fighting your caner!