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Message from: bryony, 09 Sept 05

Subject: boyfriend died in a car crash

lost my boyfrien about two months ago in a car crash. i just wanted to know if anyone else had gone through the same sort of thing and would be able to give me some advice on how they have coped and how they are doing now. i am 17 years old and am still at school.

please write bryony xxxx

Subject:its hard

i didnt lose my bf but i lost my bro who was my bst friend. sometimes it seems easier sometimes it doesnt but dont try to block it out, it will only make it harder. u need to be strong for the person who died. if they saw u like this what woulod they say to you. remember there watching over u and can see everything that u do and they wil be proud of u fopr how ever you cope with it

Subject:keep smiling

Just focus on the good times, keep ure self busy, talk to your boyfriends family about ure feelings. spend an hour a week looking at photos cards and rememing the good times. be brave be postive ure 17 ure will find some one else xxx

Subject: my heart goez out to you

Hi im zoe. i read ure post and just wanted to try and talk to u. i lost my boyfriend last year in a crash, i am now 18 but i was 17 at the time. its a horrible thing to go thru. i have found time has helped, tho it can stil be hard sumtimes it duz get easier, i never believed it...but it duz, hold on tight babe. wb if u get the chance xxx