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Message from: Stephanie, 30 Aug 05

Subject: As the days go by you get stronger

My grandad passed away over a year ago and at first i was really upset like anyone would be. It took me ages to get back to my normal self. I felt alone and didn't feel strong enough to cope with out him here. The hardest moment was going to my nans for meals as there was alway the empty chair at the end of the table where he used to sit. As time has gone by it has got a lot easier, im not saying i have forgot him coz i haven't, i mean i may not think about him all the time which i used to feel guilty for but then i realised that even tho im not thinking about him he is always on my mind and with me in sprit. I cry sometimes but not as much as i did before and i promise u, whoever u have sadly lost it does get easier for u to deal with, never give up believeing in that and try not to push your family away or close yourself away from the real world as friends and more important FAMILY will help u get through the obsticlexxxxxx