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message no. 690
| Message from: Caz,
07 June 05 |
| Subject: Miss my
mum
My mum had cancer and passed away 3 weeks ago within 5
weeks of us finding out, I was lucky enough to be holding her
hand with
my dad next to me when she went to sleep for good, I am grateful
she
never suffered, but I can not stop re living the last two weeks,
I cry
alone all the time but put on a big brave face, I write poems
about her,
not sure how to help myself, life around is just going as normal
and yet
I am so different and hurting so much, sorry to read all your
sad
stories, i can relate to how so many and how you are all feeling.
Any
advice anyone out there. My heart is broken and how do I mend
it.
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| Reply from: Cath |
Subject : Same
Hiya Caz. Im really sorry about your mum. My mum died when i was 7/8 of cancer aswell. (Im 12 now) Its SO hard loosing a parent init. People say Ooh inoo how u feel, my granparent died. Its just not the same as loosing a parent! Your right, at least she wasnt suffering anymore and shes in the best place she could be! Even though we both want ur mums right here with us. If you ever need to talk about ANYTHING im here.. Be strong! Love Cath x x x
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| Reply from: Beth |
Subject : im sorry
Hey
I lost my mum to breast cancer about 14 years ago. Im 15 now. It must be harder for you because you knew your mum. Whearas, i didnt know my mum. So io cant greive properly. I suppose my mum was lucky. Because she lasted a year after she was diagnosed. I have no one to talk to about it. My dads re-married, my sisters and brother never talk about her. Im sorry about your mum. Im glad my mum didnt feel any pain towards the end, when she slipped away forever. xxxx
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