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Message from: Billy, 23 May 05

Subject: my dad died

my dad died a month ago i am 14 and it hurts so much i am always thinking about him and i wish he was back here now and i wish i had spent more time with him like he wanted me to si that is why i have came on this site because i feel that i cant talk to anyone at the
moment.


Reply from:nicky

Subject: my dad

hiya billy, i know what your going through. my dad died 2 and abit years ago and its really hard to deal with. its good that you have come on the site to get advise and to talk about your dad. theres nothing worse then ignoring it and botteling it up inside, believe me i know. you said you didnt spend much time with him, and you regret that. lots of people feel like that, they feel like they should have said something or should have spent more time with them but he would have know you loved him, and thats all that matters. if you ever need to talk i'm here, take care luv nicky xxxxx

Reply from: rach

Subject: daddy

mydad just died on may 25 . 2005 and i know how you fell i am really sad and it feels like a dream but be strong becuase you dad is not just in heavan he is a part of you in your heart

Reply from:Chel

Subject: for billy

hey hun,my dad commited suicide last year (2004) in august,so i no how u feel.i didnt get to spend much time wiv my dad because he lived far away from me.At first u will feel lyk you have no1 to talk to,but it helps to talk to someone maybe a friend,a relative or a school councillor.But hun if u bottle it up inside you,the emotions will build up and mite make u feel worse but it helps to talk 2 sumone.Its hard when a close relative dies and when u hadnt spent much time wiv them,but just remember,your dad loved you very much and he will be proud of u no matter wot u do.my dad died when i was 14(15 now) and it is hard to cope when ur that age.But as many people say u will get over it,u wont get over it,but u will feel better and learn to cope wiv it if u tlk 2 ppl. good luck hunnie love Chel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Reply from:billy

Subject:thanks

thanks for replying to my message and you said that icould talk to you wenever so i am just tlkn to say thanks very much rb billy xxx

Reply from:billy

Subject:(no subject)

sorry i have never replied b4 i avnt been on the site 4 a long time if u dnt re,member me im the 1 who lost my dad i april im 14 i jst thought that i wud say hi from billy.

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