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Message from: laura, 20 May 05

Subject: Please help!


hi im quite new to the site and i was woundering if any one could give me some advice, well i lost my nan a year and a bit ago, and its bin really hard for all my family, but it only feels like im the only one that really misses her, i try to talk about her, but it seems everyone doesnt, is it bad that i want to talk about my nan, i dont want to suffer in slience, iv bin to councalling but stopped that now coz they said that i dont need it any more, but i really miss having those chats, what can i do please help!!
thankz
xxxxx

Subject: Hi Laura

Hiya laura
first i want to say i was sorry to read about your loss.
Next i want to say, everone deals with the death of someone close in different ways. I'm sure that your not the only one that misses her, but some people may find it hard to talk about her but youve got to remember that its not because they dont miss her. It is not bad to want to talk about your nan, in fact it is the normal thing to do.

You could try and talk to someone close in your family, or if you find it difficult i'm here to listen. i hope i have been some help

Luv nicky xx

Subject:Hi

I know its so ahrd I lost my mum and I sent you a message because it is nice to know people listen
Im sure your nan was great and be strong
Gabbi xxo