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Message from: Sara, 13 May 05

Subject: I miss my mum!

hiya, i lost my mum in April after she had cancer and now i really miss her. i dont want to experience mothers day this year because
i am scared that it will be no use as my mum isn't here anymore. i also
feel a bit guilty because she died and now i have to suffer without her.
even though she is gone her spirit still remains deep within my heart. i
miss her lots and lots. please reply if you can i need some advice! sara

Subject:(no subject)

hey its ok , im sure shes like hurting as she left you behind, but she loves you and im sure she proud of ya

Subject:Its hard

I konw I hated mothers day I cried alot and it does get a bit easier but the pain will always be their. Don't be afraid to cry and you and your dad can look after each other. I am sure your mum was a great person and it is hard as no one seems to understand because it is different for everyone. One thing you could try is playing a song she liked as it could bring back happy memorise. Gabbi

Subject: hey Sara

My mum died in Jan 2004 and so far I have been through 2 mothers days. Unfortunately they are so hard cos everywhere you go there are shop displays, adverts, people talking about what they bought their mums... It upsets and annoys me!
I find it helpful to do something that my mum enjoyed, like going on some walks she used to always go on, is there anything like that you could do? What did your mum enjoy?
If not you could always get some flowers or something an visit her grave.
It's normal and ok to feel guilty, but remember that nothing is your fault!

I think mother's day is always going to be really hard, but it does get easier, the first things like xmas, birthdays and mothers days are always the worst.
Take care hun, and remember that your mum loved you and will always be with you,
Love and hugs
crizzielizzie xXx

Subject:hey!

hey gabi and frenchy thanx for the advice i will try and i know it is hard will u keep a look out for my messages and i will keep a look out for urs thanx love Sáraxxxxx

Subject:thank you

hi nicole thankyou for your reply to my friends message she was realy thankful i know it must be realy upsetting for you about your uncles death i know we never realy talked about it at school so if you do want to talk about it then we can k luv ya luv chardonnay xxxxxxxxxxxx