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Message from: laura, 11 May 05

Subject: i want her back!

hi when i was 4 my mum died in her sleep and i dont like to talk about it. my dad trys to avoid it but i know he really cares. why did she go she left behind a loving family and my sister. i am 14 now and still miss her very much

Subject: I want her back

hi im so sorry to hear about your mum and sorry because you was sucha young age to? if it makes you feel any better i would like to say, she died in her sleep, so at least it was peaceful. may be if you tried sitting your dad down and try to talk to him, or if you talk about it more to friends, or try councalling, that might help, your mum will be looking down on you, and remmeber it does matter how long ago it is she is still your mum!! read her some poams o talk to a photo, it might help, i lost my nan a year ago i know its not my mum but i know what its like to lose some one you love and every one on this board is the same, so dont suffer in silence please!! xxxxxx

Subject: Sorry

Hi, i am so sorry to hear about your mum. i don't actually know what it feels like to lose your mum, but i lost my grandma and she was like a mum to me. It is really hard and, although it has been nearly a year now, i am still devastaed. I felt exactly the same as you when she first died, but now i know that even she had no way of knowing what was going to happen and, even though she is not here in person, she is here in spirit and is watching over me, just like your mum. i wanted, and still want to, die to be with her, but now i realise that she would want me to be happy. Your mum would feel the same. Don't bottle your feelings up. Even if your dad doesn't want to talk about it, make him because the worst thing that you can do is bottle up your feelings, you will never get over her death if you do that. Don't resent her for what happened, it wasn't her fault and she didn't want to leave a loving family behind. Just carry on with life, do well in things like exams and be happy. Thats what your mum would want. I hope this helps.

Subject:I miss my mum 2

i woz 11 wen my mum died my mum left me, my brother and 2 younga sisters wen she died i feel so alone even tho i have a gr8 family 2 but its jst not the same ma dad trys n avoids the subject 2 hope ur ok Jem

Subject:i am so sorry to hear

hey u will always miss your mum and the thouth of it must hurt inside and iam so sorry
am really sorry 2 hear this and i have not experice this and i