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message no. 630
| Message from: Ryan,
18 Apr 05 |
| Subject: I miss
my dad so very very much
The way i feel at the moment is hard to explain but i am sure
some og u out there
who have lost there dad know how i am feeling. I will just say
that the way i am feeling really is making me want to screem
If anyone want to talk just e-mail me. (Sorry Ryan we don't give
out personal e-mail addresses Rd4U Team)
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Reply from: Nina
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Subject:Sorry 2 hear about ya dad
hello
Iv lost my dad 3 years ago! and i know how u feel! I felt the same
way i just wanted scream the place down! But i knew it wouldnt help,
talk 2 people that is the best option and dunt keep ur emotions in! Cos
it will b hard 4 u 2 let ur emotions out when you talk! Hope this helps
abit!
Keep smiling
Lodza hugz nina x x x
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Reply from:cathy
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Subject:I lost my mum
Yep i no how your feeling.I havent lost my dad but i lost my
mum last aug.You want to scream then go for it.Find somewhere and let it
rip.Scream your anger for him leaving u scream for your hurt and your
loss.We need to let it out or it will end up eating us up.Take care
cathy.
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Reply from: billy
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Subject:sorry to hear about your dad
ryan i lost my dad a month ago now and i an 14 and it hurts
so much and all you have to think about is wud ya dad want you to be
upset all of the time. yeah theres not one day when i want to stand and
cry. sometimes i do but my mam said to me we had more good memories than
bad ones my mam and dad were split up for 3 years and everyone said to
me it will get easier i didnt beleive them but is ha sgot a bit easier
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Reply from:clare liz
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Subject:dad
so sorry 2 hear about ur dad. i know how u feel, i loss mine
7 yrs ago, i have been put on anti-depression tablets! i have
been on dem since jan they aint workin! number is 535 called clare
liz but da team has nt fixed it yet! when they do u can talk 2
me if u want! u r not alone al me luv clare liz keep smileing
Hi Clare liz, I'm very sorry there's been
problems posting your original message at number 553, we're looking
into this to see what's happened and if we can fix it. In the
meantime if Ryan or anyone else from string 630 would like to
reply to you I suggest they do it from 630. Once again I'm sorry
this has happened and hope that you will still use the message
board to communicate with other people. All the best. Rd4u team
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Reply from: (anon)
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Subject: Lost my dad
Ryan, i know exactly how you are feeling, i lost my Dad 6 months ago and finding it very hard to deal with - i feel empty, lost, confused - he was my best mate - its going to be hard to accept whats happening but i get told one day i will - but at the minute it going to take a long time before i see light at the end of the tunnel. I do sympathise with you a lot and i hope things improve for you but it will take time.
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| Reply from: Katyyy |
Subject: You are not alone
I lost my dad on 21st December 07 to cancer. I feel so alone and to be honest i don't really no what to feel, what to do, how to act. I have been told that is all part of the grievin process and so don't worry to much about how you are feeling at the moment. You are probly still comfused by it all and still in shock which is why you feel like this
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| Reply from: Tina |
Subject: Dad x
I have just lost my dad b4 christmas ...Im 15 and it is really hard for me i have no idea how to cope ...sometimes i think bout dyeing so i can c him...i can't talk to my sister she is 22 but she doesnt like tlkin bout it i havent grieved yet and i was in forster care 9 years cus my mum and dad were alcholics but i recently just got out and then this happens and his funeral was on christmas eve and his other family who he wlked out on who dont like him took over and told us the wrong time to my own dads funerall so we missd it so i havent said b and i cry and cry i write letters to him i sumtimes c him ...people think im mad but its true ...i wont to write about ym life story but i need help with it and i want it published any one got any ideas ....x thankyu
From RD4U
I am sorry to hear that you lost your dad before Christmas. You say you have no idea how to cope. I hope that we can help. We have a Freephone Helpline on 08088081677 which is open from 930am to 5pm Monday to Friday. We also have branches of bereavement support workers and details of our branches are on our website www.cruse.org.uk There is also Childline which has a very good Helpline on 0800 1111 which is open 24 hours a day.I hope these ideas are helpful and that they will help you to cope a bit more. Best wishes |
| Reply from: Hannah |
Subject : Sorry About your Dad,
Sorry bout your dad but i lost my dad too about 4 months ago and i've learnt that it's best if you want to scream to scream! Just let it all out before you bottle it up and you explode. I kept it all in and it did nothing for me. Just keep talking to people about how you feel and don't be afraid too.
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| Reply from: ryan j |
Subject : i lost my dad too
hi ryan im so sad to hear about your dad i know how you feel i lost my dad but not like i just really angry and take out on i love the most
from ryan
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| Reply from: Lulu |
Subject : trust me
it gets easier but it never goes away. i lost my mother at 6 yrs old but i never had a dad, he left b4 i was born. when you say its hard to explain how you feel, i understand. but it all depends on how long ago and how old you were. no one goes through the same thing, its different for everyone, but that doesnt mean people dont understand. i understand. |
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