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Message from: Chris, 01 Apr 05

Subject: Dad

My Dad died about a year and a half ago on his motorbike. Ever since I've been having dreams where he said he wanted to die and he wanted to start a new life. My Dad was really nice and he loved me and my family loads he died by accident and i feel so alone and confused. Last night I dreamt he faked his death and hated my Mum which isn't true. I'm scared to go to bed because of these dreams has anybody else suffered or is suffering from dreams about their Dad i don't know what to do please help me.

Reply from:Nicky

Subject: hiya

hia chris my dad died two years ago and i used to dream about him alot. Mainly about the day he died and what i should have said and should have done, i felt the same way you do now. In the end youve got to remember that it is only a dream and that non of it is true. You know how much your dad loved both you and your mum so whatever you see in your dreams doesnt show how your dad felt about you. Every time i used to have a dream i thought about all the good times we had together. Try it it mite help - it did for me. If you need to talk im here luv nicky xxx

Reply from:Vicky H

Subject:My Dad

my dad died 3 months ago and he hung himself in the garage so there are other people in the world who are going through what you are

Reply from:Chris

Subject:Thanks

Thanks 4 ur advice things r getting better uve been a huge help if u ever need 2 talk im here 2

Reply from: Emily

Subject:hi

my nan died 5 years ago so i have been put in the same way as you my nan was more like my friend then my nan i could tell her anything or everthing she would listern to me
luv emily

Reply from: soph

Subject: my dad

hi im soph, im new 2 dis!
i have dreams about the day my dad died. but usally i have flash backs of the day its horible. i jst wnt 2 stand there scream and cry. i try so hard 2 remeber the good times but all i cn remember at the moment is the day it happened. do ppl say 2 u tht things will get better over time? n do u belive them? i jst need a bit of advice. lv soph x x

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