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Message from: becki, 30 Mar 05

Subject: the love of my life killed himself

on the 24th of march 2005 my boyfriend hung himself...wrote a note telling me he couldnt cope and that hed loved me very much and he never wanted to hurt me....im really struggling to go on. he was only 19. can anyone help me!!!!!

Subject:I understand

Hey, I'm so sorry that you've lost someone special becky. Last Jan my mum hung herself and everything is so hard, it feels like the end of the world and a year on i'm still finding it hard to cope. I cant give a date where you will magicaly feel better, but I promise that eventually things will work out ok and you will feel ok again. I set up a site for young people bereaved by suicide, its still new but it might help, http://www.geocities.com/grievingteen take care and remember that even though it hurts like hell you can get through this, love and hugs, crizzielizzie xXx

Subject:Hope

Becki im so sorry 2 hear of ur loss nd i knw datz wt probably every1 iz sayin, bt i reli am. I lost my b/f jus ova a yr ago, evn thou e didn choose 2 go, e did go extremly suddenly nd e wz d love of my life, da person who i thought i wz gna b wid 4eva. it hit me reli hard, bt jus remember u gta keep fighting and keep hopin & smilin. if u wana chat bout anyfink den jus reply.Keep faith & hope nd stay strong. x x x x

Subject:sorry

i am sorry to here about your boyfriend, what was his name? it helps to talk about it so maby u should phone up cruse, they will help u and they wont no anyting more than u tell them

Subject:Becki

Hi Becki, the phone line that Josie has mentioned is the Cruse young peoples helpline you can contact them on 0808 808 1677 (Mon - Fri 9.30 -5pm). It's free, confidential and won't show up on your phone bill. Take care Rd4 U Team

Subject:im really sorry to hear tht!

that is really sad!i love my boyfreind so much and i dont know what i would do if he died!an the reason im on dis site is coz his sister died but i hope you feel better soon!did you know why he hung himself?if you wanna chat im here
love clare
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Subject: know wot ur goin through

hi beki, my boyfriend did the exact same thing, we was together for 4 years and have 2 children together age 3 and 1 im 22 he was 26, i dont know y he done it, its 6 months on thursday, evry1 thinks im copin but im not, the only reason im here is coz of my kids, ino i should be giving you words of support but at the mo im still grieving very much. but i no theres light at the of the tunnell, i have lots of friends and family, they do help with the kids alot, so thats a gud thing! i just wish i could find answers to y he done it, he left a note but it didnt explain much he just said he couldnt cope. did your boyfriend leave a note?