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Message from: Gabbi, 16 Mar 05

Subject: mother's day

I really missed my mum and I feel realy empty without her mothers day was the worst so far. She only died 13 days before christmas last year and she had cancer. I miss her really badly.

Subject:mothers day

hi gabbi. my mum passed away in jan 04 and for this mothers day i decided i would like to do something. in the school where my mum worked as a dinner lady there is a little memorial garden and the friday before mothers day i unveiled a plaque there. i arranged a little ceremony with the help of my bereavement councellor who works at the school also and we invited family and a few close friends of my mums. it went down really well and i felt better knowing id done something. perhaps it would be a good idea for you to gather some friends and family for a little...well we used the word "gathering". im not saying you should do the same thing i did but it might help having some close ones of your mums near you.

Subject:hi

hi, i know how you feel. my nan died 8 days before christmas and i cant cope. i dont rely get on with my mum so my nan was like my real mum. we spent things like mothers day and christmas with her all the time and now i cant its too hard. do you ever want to die? gail x

Subject:Thank you

Thank you for the replies it is nice to know that Im not alone though it often feels like it

Subject: (no subject)

gail why did u ask "do you ever want to die?"? is that how u feel sometimes?

Subject:Me too!

hiya Gabbi, my mum also had cancer and has just died in April and i miss her badly too! your not the only one so don't worry. i am always here and i know that it will be really hard for you as well as me. i will look out for your messages and i hope you will look for mine bibi xxxx

Subject:Hey!

hey gabbi i was also gonna tell u i am always here for u and i hope that u are laways here for me 2 k! so keep an eye out for my messages and i will keep an eye out for messages to ok! lots of luck Sara xxxxxxxxxx gtg (got to go)bibixxxxx