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Message from: Aimee, 03 Mar 05

Subject: i thought my dad died but he not

hiya my mum and dad ( will who i thought me was) died in a house fire last with my twin baby brother and sister. now i am stayin with my gran. then on the 2nd of feb past there this man came to grans door and and told me gran i was his child. gran told him i coulding be and he showed her some papers sayin i was his child. gran and i did not not beleve this so we all had 2 go thought all this things and then the men told us i was his child now i have 2 c him 3 time a week. I still cry every night Beacause i miss my family but i sometimes fell really mad with them for not tellin me that this man was my dad and now my gran got really ill and we think she diein and if she dies i will have to go live with this man. PLEASE HELP ME I CANT HANDLY IT ALL. from amiee aged 11

Subject:wat

sorry but how can you think your dad is dead and hes not. no disrespect or nothing just wonderin.

Subject:i lost my brother to cancer

hi karl i also lost my brother to cancer. he was 18 when he died and i was fifteen. that was almost five years ago. it is such a cruel disease, but my brother was very strong and fought all the way. it will never get easier but you will get stronger and cope with it a bit more each day. if ever you need to talk, im here for youx

Subject: I know your pain

Hi, I am 16 and i lost my dad when I was 11 months old on the 26th April 1990. He was shot by accident. He was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. I just cant move on like you and I need to know what my dad sounded like what he looked like what he found funny what he smelt like. Just all the things that my friends take for granted I long for every day. Like you my mum was amazing after being widowed when she was 28 she regained her strength and bought up me and my brother who was 2 when my dad died like you. I know i will never get the clarity I wish for but I also know that my dad will always be there somewhere looking over me. And I hope you feel the same. Please respond so we can talk. love Hannah xx