link to homepage
4 blue footprints
link to the work continues website link to cruse bereavement care website'

message board

message no. 565

Message from: han, 05

Subject: cancer

My Dad died a couple of years ago from cancer, & I never talked about it to anyone, even though I was really hurting inside. Now my Grandad has terminal cancer & only has a few days left to live - I feel overwhelmed with hurt for him & my Dad - just looking for people who understand & can share their feelings with me.




Reply from:Lorna

Subject:I know how you feel

I understand how you are feeling, I lost both my aunty and Gran to cancer. Now somebody else I know also has terminal cancer. I didnt talk to anyone either, but if you dont it will eat you up inside, as I found out. I felt so angry when they died, it is a horrible disease that destroys lives. I was also hurting, I couldnt understand why it had to be my family. If you have noone to talk to then try writing your feelings down, I use to write poetry. If you do need to talk then just send me a message back. lotsa love and take care. Lorna xxx

Reply from:Hannah

Subject:cancer

hi Han, my younger brother died from cancer 18 months ago so I understand how you are feeling. It's difficult to accept that an illness can have a cure and even harder to understand why someone you love has to suffer from this. xx

Reply from:Chenise

Subject: Hannah it's ok

Hello Hannah i am chenise i am only 14 and i lost my dad when i was 4 the pain inside my heart will never go away and i know what u are going through just please remember you are a great person and can overcome anything if you set your mind to it you are a wonderful person and have alot to live for and just remember YOUR FATHER is looking down on you from the heavens smiling saying;'that's my girl my beautiful girl' love chenise xxx

reply to message | back to message board

home
about RD4U
personal
interact
| message board
| private message
| gallery
| comments
| feedback
fun zone
LADS ONLY
links
contact us
sitemap
home | about RD4U | personal | interact | fun zone | LADS ONLY | links | contact us | sitemap