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Message from: (anon), 16 Feb 05

Subject: (no subject)

my father really died, and now I have no one to look up to (sorry it's not any of this bull that you normally post, "my mate died" and i'm bored, who is going to play teather ball with me) my father died. I watched him die, I watched him have a heart attack in a hospital and I watched the flatline on the monitor. You won't post this i'm sure because you don't like real stories but that's okay. i'm trying to be there for my mother as much as possible, but he died right before his birthday, and thanksgiving and christmas, and valentines day. and you know i have never really had a time to grieve because i've had to just be there for my mother, one of the last things that he said to me was to stop the treatmeant and to take care of my mother. (im trying to)
my dad really died, and i'm dealing with it,I must admit that im angry all of the time because i see how hurt my mother is. I know you wont post this so i'm wasting my time

Subject:(no subject)

Everybody has a reason for posting messages on this board. Whether it be their mother, father, sister, brother, friend etc. that they have lost we have all lost somebody and have felt the hurt of losing somebody. I myself have lost my 6 year old brother and while I understand that you are angry at the loss of your father I find it wrong for you to say that our stories aren't "real stories". We all have suffered losses and this message board is to help each other not put each other down.
chrissie, age 17

Subject:(no subject)

Are you implying that people make up stories on this website? I am really offended as my dad died and I would never believe that people would make that up

Subject:Stories

I find it very hard to believe that people here would "make up" stories - why? My Dad died too, from cancer, & it was very hard to go thru, & at times I have felt very angry too. I hope you will be able to realise by reading the stories on here that everyone here has suffered a loss & here you can find people who will understand what you're going thru & who will listen to you & do their best to support you.

Have a think & post again when you're ready,

Take Care,
Han xxx

Subject:(no subject)

we are all real. but im not angry for not believing. when you feel low, talk 2 your dad.he loves you and always will. and your mam will probably b morning to but if you speak 2 her about ur feelings it would help you and her im sure. x x x if u need more help write back