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Message from: michelle, 19 Jan 05

Subject: lost my mum and dad

hey i lost my mum and dad on new years eve and i don't know what to do i don't have any1 to talk 2 or 2 turn 2 i want to die and join my mum and dad please reply from michelle 14 xxx p.s take care

Reply from: RD4U Team

Subject:Message 4 u

Hi Michelle, we're so sorry to hear about the recent death of your mum & dad, we can't imagine how hard things must be for you right now & how much you must be hurting. When things hurt so bad it can feel like the only way to cope is to die yourself. It's really important when you feel like this to talk about what's going and it's great that you've reached out to the message board. You can send us a private e-mail if you want and we can talk to you more about finding ways to cope & where to get help. There are places where you can talk about how you feel & people will listen one is online at www.there4me.com and on the phone there is Childline 0800 11 11 & the Samaritans 08457 90 90 90. We imagine things must feel pretty awful right now but you don't have to go through this all alone. Wishing you all the best, take care, RD4U Team.

Reply from:Hannah

Subject:so sorry

Hi Michelle,
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. I am 15 and I lost my dad 5 years ago and it DOES get easier to deal with. I cant comprehend what it must be like to lose your mum and dad and I feel deeply for you and will pray for you. Do you have any brothers or sisters to help you through. Stay Strong. God bless. love Hannah

Reply from: matty

Subject:its the same with me

when my mum died i worried about everything no i'm scared about my dad cos he is'nt well.

Reply from:Nina

Subject:I'm sorry to hear about ur mum and dad

I lost my dad 2 years ago and i was a daddys lil girl..as im sure most girls are...When e 1st died i had no 1 2 tlk 2, cos i wasnt as close as i was 2 the rest ov my family, i always told my dad everythink....

When he 1st died i wnated 2 die, and wanted 2 join him....But then i thought this is not what he would want he would want me 2 be happy in life...Make sure u dunt keep ya feelings in...and if u eva want 2 tlk u can msg me bk....

Keep smiling hun, i know its hard..X

Loadza Hugz
Nina x x x

Reply from: christine

Subject:i know what you are going through

hey i am sorry to hear of your loss but i know exwhat your going through. i lost my dad when i was 13 and last year i lost my mom. i dont want to be here and want to die aswel just so i can be with them. i no what it is like 4 you. i am at breaking point now and thought talking to someone who is going through the same thing may help xxx

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