message board

Message from: Anna-marie, 17 Jan 05

Subject: My Mum

My Mum died in August last year, it was so sudden one minute she was there and the next she was gone. Life is very hard and i know that it can and never will be the same again really but I have to make the best of it as my mum would want me to be happy and to be getting on with my life. You have to be strong for yourself and others.

I recommend Cruse counselling definitly as it did help me and they had lots of really good books to help.

Subject:i know how you feel

hiya, i lost my mum 2 years ago now but that was very suddenly to a brain hemorage we had no warning or nothing. My life is also very hard living without her coz i miss her so much, but like you i try 2 stay strong for everyones elses sake aswell as my own. Take care, love maria xxx

Subject:i miss her so much

hey i lost my mum on xmas day 2003. she was my best friend n i miss her so much. i duno if its just me or if u feel the same sometimes but some days i just cant cope n just start cryin. i feel like every1 expects me 2 move on so i find it hard to talk about it with anyone

Subject: my sister brain hemorage

Hi, I lost my beautiful sister in november 2004. Lisa died 8 days before her birthday and leaves behind a wonderfull daughter who was only 13 when this happened. My niece now lives with my parents and i live opposite my sisters old house. I cry alot as i feel very lonely and miss her so much, i look at her daughter and think of all the things she's missing out on.
Life does go on and though its not the same when you've lost someone, you must make the most of it and know they are smiling down on you when you achieve things in life. Our loved one's are only a breath away giving us support to carry on. My love goes out to all of you as for once i can truly say i know how it feels and i've seen the pain it causes x x x