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Message from: leah, 04 Jan 05

Subject: my grandma is very sick

Hello. My g'ma is very sick. She had a heart attack 7 months ago and she is not recovering from it. She was put in a nursing home and they didnt take care of her. She has infections, and bed sores. She has 70% of her lungs filled with crap which makes it hard for her to breathe and she is on a ventalator. She is 67. Everyone is talking about her getting ready to die. My G'ma wanted to be creamated because it would save money and she was very poor. The family is in a fight on what they should do with her body if she is to pass on.. I dont think they should worry about that but hope for the best and not plan on her to die. I had faith in god but now I am confused. Why would god want to take all these people? Why is her being selfish. My G'ma has more things to do on earth. She needs to be with me and my family. She brought joy to our lives and I dont want to her be gone. She is on a machine and they gave her 72 hours on friday New Years EVE 2004... that was an awful new years !!!!

Subject:sorry about your gran

heya leigh i lost my grandad and he was on a ventilator and his lungs has a loada crap in it 2 but unfortualatly he has died i was so close to him and it has been hard but if your nan does die remind your family of her wishes to be cremated and mabie that would help. and try not to think about your grandma dieing bacuse it will hurt more and just concentrate on her getting better good luck bibi xxx