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Message from: mark, 22 Nov 04

Subject: death of a parent

I lost my dad 4 years ago and I am still destraught I dont no wot 2 do sumtimes but sumtimes I think shud I cry or shud I die and I have learnt tht I shud cry if I want 2 dont let it bottle up inside let it all out and u shud feel better afta not totally obviously as u still dont have u'r parent but dont 4 get u wil meet again wen the time is righ.

I no it may seem hard my dad has be ded 4 4years now and sumtimes I feel I sudn't av a laf but tht is all u'r mum/dad wud wont u 2 do it dusn't mean u av 4got them it just means u r doin wot they want u 2 do.

Subject:reply 2 ur message

hiya i feel the same i lost my mum 2 years ago on da 2nd of December. I feel like you tho wen u say abt laughin an u think u shudnt be. I find it really hard some of the time especially as its coming up 2 2 years an all the memories come flooding back but i agree that you should still laugh as it is what they wud av wanted. take care xxxx