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Message from: claire, 9 Nov 04

Subject: miss you nan

I lost my nan on the 2 october 2004
It hurt my bad
whats worse i didnt get to say goodbye
i go and visit her grave but its not the same i need u nan and i love u real bad
please come back
Love clare
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Subject:nans

My nan died approximately 20 years ago in December and for some reason I was just thinking about her out of the blue. I typed in her name and nan, and your message came up. It's natural to miss your nan and I'm sure she'll be thinking of you too. I was lucky in a way my nan went at a time when she was quite happy to go and very naturally, and I feel that she is here in spirit when I think of her as if it were yesterday.

It will get easier for you I promise and I hope that there are other members of your family that you can talk to about her - it helps keep her memory alive and helps you grieve too.

Take care of your self and very best wishes.xx

Subject: my nan

my nan only died in june,2006 and i just don't know how to cope with her death. little things like songs or things people say suddenly make me cry and i just want to deal with her death but don't know how to. She was my last grandparent and she was everything. I have self harmed and tried to take my own life, i now regret that because i know my nan wouldn't want me to of done that. Please if either of you have ways of dealing please tell me.my thoughts are with you both xx