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Message from: Depp, 02 Nov 04

Subject: Why me!

Hi about 7 months ago I lost my granddad and then 6 months ago I lost my uncle in a fatal car accident. My granddad had lung cancer and I am so upset. People say I should have got oover it by now but it is not that simple. I have no friends and I am so alone. I hate being me!!!

Reply from:Danielle

Subject:Why me!

Hi depp, I'm sorry to hear that. I lost my grandad on 4th October 2004 and I'm still very upset about it. I lost my nan on 28th december 1992...12 years ago this year and I STILL HAVEN'T got over her death although I have learnt to accept it more. It takes time. Each person is different and no one can really understand what you are going through at this time. I know I have tried to bottle it all up inside so I don't upset anyone and I feel like nobody understands. Your Grandad and uncle will be looking down on you and they'll be proud of you, glad that your remembering them. Your not alone and if you need to talk all you have to do is ask. Don't hate being yourself. I know it's hard but if you remember the good times you've had with your Grandad and uncle then it can help. All I know is that my Grandad is still waiting to wake up but he never will.
Take care,

Danielle

Reply from: sezzer

Subject: (no subject)

look if peps r sayin u should have got ova it bi no they dunna anythang it still hurts i no dont worry.

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