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Message from: cherie, 18 Oct 04

Subject: 7 months ago

hi, my nan died 7 months ago on 16th march 04. i havent got over her death yet and i dont think i ever will, no one can ever get over a death specialy if they are close to you. my nan died of bone cancer and she was best friend. i am goin through depression right now coz of it, i alwayz though i was on my own since she left but reading your messages has made me realise i am not. but i have alot of questions to ask at the moment and i need help coz iv started cuttin myself i really need help!

Subject:Sorry

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your gran. I have not lost my gran but I have lost my dad and my grandpa and I know how hard things are. Try doing something to take your mind off the fact that she has died such as sport or you could make a scrapbook with pictures and memories of your gran. Email back if you want to talk about it. Love Hannah xxxx

Subject:I'm here 4 u

Hello Cherie
I agree totally with you that it's not possible to get over a death of someone close to u. I lost my mum a couple of months before you lost ur nan and i want to say i feel just like you. I miss my mum a lot and I'm not looking forward to Christmas without her. I know though that there are lots of people around to support me and perhaps we could be here for each other? Lots of luv to you.
I've thought about cutting myself but i can't so i don't know what u are going through there but i really hope that people being there for u will help u get through it.
By the way if you don't mind me asking did your nan die from an illness or just naturally? It's because myself and a friend both lost our mums to cancer and we r trying to raise money for cancer charities which is helping take our minds off it and carry on with life the best we can.

Subject:7 months ago

I know how u feel.. My granddad died on the 1st of March. My grandma is really missing him and so am I. We did everything 2gether.My teachers and friends think I should just get over him but I can't. It is hsi b-day soon and I am still really upset.