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Message from:Anon, 22 Sept 2004

Subject: I want my mummy

My mum died 2 months ago because she had a terrible accident. it was so sudden! she hung on in hospital for 2 weeks and when she went to heaven my world collapsed. Its so hard and lifes getting harder day by day! I'm only 16. any advice?

Subject: it does get easier

hiya, I know how you feel i lost my mum 19 months ago now she died on 2nd December 2002. It was very sudden, she had a brain hemorage. I was only 12 at the time and my sister was 15 an my brother was 16, it was really hard to cope with at the time but as time goes on it gets easier. I still miss my mum more every day and the pain never goes away and i have some really bad days when i feel down, but it has got easier and i am sure with time it will for you.

Subject:mum

I have lost my mum as well 2 years ago due to a car accident. life was and still is reaay hard for me, my sisters, brother and Dad, but life goes on and itwill get easier. talk to your friends and family about how you feel. dont let you emotions build up. they will take control over your life and it isnt fir on you. Time heals and it will get easy.

Subject:Thinking of u

Hi I lost my mum too in January this year. I was 16 just like you. It is so so very, very hard I feel so much for you. I have times when I cry so very hard still now. What I try to do is carry on at school/work and try and be positive the best I can. I know still though that always there will be a pain in me from losing my mummy that won't go away. Lots of love to you and although I didn't know your mum I think that like my mum she is wanting us to try and get on and be as happy as possible with our lives. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx My mum signed my 16 birthday card with 16 kisses for the 16 years we had together and I want to share them with you for the 16 years you had with you mum.