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Message from: Natasha, 23 Aug 04

Subject: Alone
My Mum died last year at the end of April (30th) Its now just me and my dad. I did have a boyfrend but he dumped me coz i was finding things so hard,he said he wanted 2 have fun. The thing is his best mate is my neighbour so its a constant reminder.Im seein councilors but nothings helpin.My frends havent spoken 2 me since my mum got diagnosed with cancer. I just cant cope any more,im so tired and lonely i want 2 b with my mum again,i want a cuddle.Im scared,i keep imagining how i could kill myself,wot time id do it,so my dad would be at work and everything,i dont no wot 2 do,im getting desperate!

Reply from: lisa

Subject:alone
i think that you need to speak to your friends abou the situation and they will come round they are still shocked about it.Do you still keep in contact with your boyfriend i think that if you tell him what is on you mind then he will be able to help you with the situation . i Have just lost one of my friends(boy) due to a car accident so i know what you are going through. Hope this is helpfull Lisa

Reply from: jen

Subject:luv u 2
Hi Natasha I feel so much 4 u I lost my mum too. It's so hard if you want to talk I'm here for you. Lots of love jen

Reply from:Sarah

Subject:(no subject)
hey im here if u want to talk

Reply from:Fahima

Subject: All Alone
Hi natasha I feel sorry for you as well as i feel sorry for my self because my mum and dad are dead and it's very strange have fun in life far Fahima age-12
How old are u?

Reply from: ....x...., 6 Oct 2007
Subject : alone
never think of killing your self, it would do more harm than good all your family and friends that you would leave behind would feel awful, i should know my friend killed himself. instead of solving problems it creats more.
Reply from: LadyJane
Subject: dont ever think of killing yourself.
i went down that road, right to the end and ended up in hospital with hundereds of tubes and wires hooking me to machines. after that i realised how much that hurt the people around me, especially my dad. after mum died im all hes got. your never alone, there are always people there for you.
rember that.
xxxx

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