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Message from: Debbie, 7 July 04

Subject: Miscarriage

hello i was wondering if anyone else here has experienced it. as i feel it may help me to talk to someone who has.

Subject:I HAVE

i feel sorry for u if u have, cus i have and it was really bad time for me and my boyfriend.

Subject:**pain**

Sorry for your loss i know miscarriage is a painful loss unlike no other but it is a loss all the same. Its something which was part of you!
You've gpt to take each day as it comes!
if you need to talk i'm here
Kirst

Subject: miscarriage

its awful to have a miscarriage, i have been through it too.Im sure it will help if you have family around who you can talk to about it. i didn't so i had to go through it alone, but it helps talking to someone else about it.

Subject:Misscarriage Support

Experiencing a misscarriage is a painful and difficult experience as you've all said. We'd just like to let you know that there are some places where you can get support, information & help.
The best one is the UK Misscarriage Association their webiste is at www.misscarriageassociation.org.uk They also have a helpline which is open Mon - Fri 9 - 4 where they can put you in touch with other people close to you who have had similar experiences. The helpline number is 01924 200 799
It's important to be able to talk about what you've been through with people who understand. Hope that helps.
Rd4U Team

Subject:Miscarriage

I know what you are going through because I have been through a miscarriage myself after being on treatment. I was almost 4 months and I thought that my world had ended. I was told I could never have anymore and I felt even lower. I felt numb the day it happened and it was happening to someone else and I was just an onlooker people tried to console me by saying you are young you can have more but that meant nothing to me because all I wanted to do was hold my little girl. She wasn't something that you could just forget about she was part of me and people forgot very quickly that she ever existed. I was very angry about that. I have 2 young girls now but I will never forget the baby that I had for that short time. She is just as part of me as my other 2 children she is no different. In time you learn to live with the hurt but you never forget

Subject: miscarriage

I lost a son in 1994 in my fifth month of pregnancy. It is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. Every commercial was a diaper one, or one for baby food. I still think of my boy, and wonder what he would be like now, so it never completely goes away, and I am not going to lie, it takes a while for you to feel better, sometimes a long while. I have another son now, and he has been a big help in that area, but I still get the box from the hospital out every month to look at the pictures and to feel the hair that they had cut for me. I did get some closure by having a memorioal service, but that is all based on personal preferrances, I wish you all the best, and I will keep you in my prayers, Nik

Subject:misscarriage

I know how hard it is to misscarry. i went for my first scan at 12wks and the baby was fine and heart beat was strong. I was so excited about being a mum, but on the 14th week i had a little bit of blood, so i went to the hospital, and they gave me a scan, i couldnt look, the lady was silent then i said "the babys dead isnt it" and she told me it had. i broke down. i couldnt understand why it happend i tolk so much care.After having a D/C im now trying for another but im terrified it will happen agian. why is life so crul?

Subject:miscarriage

i am so sorry for your loss.
i have just been through the same
thing.
i feel my life has just come to a full stop.
i was going through fertility treatment.
take care love louise.

Subject: can anyone help me??

i have recently suffered a miscrg and am not doing at all well, this is mainly due to the fact that my boyfriend has already one son from a pevious relationship and does not at all understand how hard it is fpr me to spend time with his child. it seems so unfair! i misscarried at just 11 wks but my baby had stoped breathing at 9 wks, so i was carrying around a dead child for 2 wks, and i still hate myself for it. the pain seems like it will not end, I really feel so very alone in this even though deep down I know i'm not. however my friends and family don't even letg me talk about it. can anybody please lend some advice.

Subject :
i feel sorry 4 yew it happened to me but my mum had a still birth,it's horrible .my brother stopped growing around 16-17 week old. my mum sed he was so tiny he had 2 go in a mossice basket because she didn't want to hurt his little body and i hav already got a younger brother but he doesn'y understand like me and me mum and my step dad are feelin ight now xx becci xx