| Message from: Megan - 17 Apr
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Subject: my boyfriend
My Boyfriend Dean was my best friend. Right before he died we went on a trip to Hawaii for my birthday. It was the best present I could have asked for. It's been 9 months since his accident, but the pain will not subside. I'm confused and don't know what to do. Everyone keeps telling me to go out and date other people, but I'm not ready. Will I ever be ready?
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Reply from:Sophie 04 May 04
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Subject:my boyfriend died too
my boyfriend died just over 3 months ago. i do have another boyfriend now, but he's been my best friend for years now, so it's more like a friendship.
when you do meet someone then it'll feel right to date them. if it still feels weird, then you're obviously not ready. don't force yourself into a relationship you don't want.
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Reply from:Megan 14 May 04
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Subject:To Sophie
I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend, I'm glad to hear that you're dating someone...that's so great for you! I'm in no rush to be in a serious relationship, though it is fun just to date around, although I doubt that anything more than friendship can come from it. I hope everything goes well for you and thank you for replying. Lots of love,
Megan
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Reply from:Lizzy
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Subject: Boyfriend
Dear Sophie,
I know how you are feeling. My boyfriend died 3 months ago now in an
accident. You are very lucky to have been able to have gone on holiday
with him and spent such a lovely time with him, although i imagine it
all seems so long ago now. I feel like I will never be able to love
someone again, the way I did my boyfriend. He was so wonderful, made me
laugh and smile. I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.
Who knows what we are mean to do now...The last thing I would want is to
be with someone else now, and yet I really miss having someone there.I
don't know how old you are. I am 23, but I do hope that one day, when I
get to grips with all of this, I will be able to find someone else. And
you will too.x
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Reply from:Anna
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Subject:My Bf died
Hello.
my boyfriend died in a car accident last week. im 15 and he was 17. it seems like such a waiste. please help, how can i move on and remember the good times we had?
the funerals tomorrow. i dont want to say goodbye.
love Anna
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Reply from: Jessica
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Subject:Mine past away too
My boyfriend past away almost a year ago now from brain cancer. Its so hard knowing that I will never see him again but I think about all the good times we had. Just remember its ok to cry. You cant hide from your emotions because they will still be here tomorrow. Just let those tear drops fly. Dont keep it all inside.
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Reply from:Jessica
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Subject: To Lizzy
I feel exactly the same about not wanting to be with anyone else and you cant imagine loving someone as much as you loved him. I am only 17 and I do believe that my boyfriend was my soul mate and I will never ever find someone that I can love the way I loved him or feel the same when I was with him. I hope that one day I will find someone to love but I know that it wont be as strong a love and it will be hard to actually say the words I love you to that person even if I do love them.
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Reply from:Jody
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Subject:(no subject)
I know what it is like too. my name is jody and my boyfirend passed away 2 months ago in his sleep. there were no warnings and no signs then one day he was gone. i am 27 and we were together for almost 5 year getting ready to get engaged. it is so hard but i know i need to stay strong for myself and for him. we never know why these things happen to people like us but they do and we have to deal with them the best way we can. I am sure in time we will all be able to move on because we can not be alone and our loved ones wouldnt want us to be.
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Reply from: becki
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Subject: my boyfriend died too
my boyfriend died instantly in a car accident 2months ago. i miss him more than anything and ive never experienced anyone dying before. he was a chef at my parents pub for 9years and we had been dating for 18months. i saw him everyday and he was my best friend. it still doesnt feel like he has actually gone. im tryin hard to get through my alevels but most days i just want to give up. i dont want to be here without him anymore. my friends are being fantastic but i wish osmeone could wave a magic wand and make it all better...
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Reply from: stephanie
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Subject: xmas death, 14/08/07
My boyfriend has been dead now for almost 8 months but it sems like it was yesterday. I miss him sooo much I have had dreams about him. I would give my own life for him I have dated just so I dont have to be alone but noone will ever be as good as him EVER! I hope you all are doing better than me cuz this doesnt seem to be getting any better.
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Reply from: Dorothy,
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subject : my bf died, 02/09/07
My bf died in a car wreck last week. I feel numb and tired and i have these crying meltdowns. We've been together almost two years and it was probably one of the best relationsips i've ever had. I know i'll work through this grief but for now its very painful. I feel like i want to talk to him just one more time.
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| Reply from: maya, March 2008 |
Subject : i know how it feels
on may 8th 07, my boyfriend died. There's something wrong with his head, but we never knew what it was, 'cos he died just before the morning he's scheduled to do the CT Scan.
I date him for 7 years, and i could always tell back then that this is the man that i want to marry.
But GOD said differently. He was taken away from me for good.
and honestly, (not always), but everytime i think of whats happened I'm mad at GOD (i know i shouldn't), but i think it's a 'normal' stage for people who suffers great lost of their love ones.
It's never been easy for me, i don't cry everyday like i used to (several months after he passed away), but the pain still remain, and i don't think it will ever get away. Time will tell, but i don't think time will heal.
There aren't days without thinking of him.., and i miss him every damn second of my life.
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| Reply from: Taz |
Subject: Boyfriend's death_ April 2008
Hi,my boyfriend died in April 2008 about 2 months ago in a car accident, it still feels so unreal. Sometimes I still wait for him just to walk through the door, hoping that this is one sick joke. He meant everything to me and was trully a guy in a million an angle sent from heaven. Thats why its so hard to accept. Right now I seem to miss him more and more each day. The memories seemed to consume me there is not a moment that goes by that I dont think about him. Right now all I can do is seek some answers through reading other people's stories. It helps Knowing that you not alone.
To My Love... You will always be apart of me.
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| Reply from: Victoria |
Subject : My boyfried just died too
My boyfriend died a few weeks ago in a car accident at 21 yrs old.. my life has stopped i feel like i wake up to that next day everyday. I dont know what to do. I always feel like no1 has experianced this so their is no real help.. I dont know how I will ever move past this and accept what happened. We were gona get engaged this comming summer.. i dont know what to do what to think.. I just cant accept it.. in how long will this get better?
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