message board

Message from: Clara - 26 Feb 04

Subject: Brother's death

It's hard to cope - very hard. he was in a foreign country on his gap year when he died so i feel like he could come home any time. Any advice? x x x

Subject: i know its hard

its normal to feel like this, my brother died whilst i was away, so i keep expecting to see him when i go home. my brother was just 18 when he died and it makes it clear in my mind that you only have one live so take advantage of it while you can.

Subject: (no subject)

Hi clara im really sorry to hear about your brother. mine died coming up 6months ago. i am finding things really hard at the mo. resently ive been ok but its his birthday tomorrow (28th feb) and i just cnt bare it without him here.
im here if you need me maybe we can help eachother and you kels.
nikki x

Subject: thank-you

that is all so true. Can i ask you how long ago he died. If you do not want to say dont worry. bye

Subject: brothers death

hi i lost my brother 4 years ago in march and i still find it hard to accept. They say time is a great healer, i know I'll never fully accept him being gone but i treasure the time i had with him and hope he's watching over me
I wish i could offer words of comfort but i myself am searching for that inner peace. I hope that your pain eases in time as i hope mine will too.x

Subject: Pictures

Hi Clara,
I just wanted to say thanx for sharing the pictures of your brother with us; he looks like he was having such a good laugh with his mates on holiday.

I can understand it must be really hard for you to accpet his death because he was away at the time it happened; I bet you're just waiting for him to walk in the door, I felt that way for a time after my dad died.

The only advice I can give you is to keep talking about how you feel and keep communicating with people on here or wherever, I think it helps me realise I'm not alone and that goes a long way to helping me keep going.

Feel free to msg back, if you would like to.

Take care, Love
Alexis
xxx

Subject: (no subject)

Thank-you all, ime sorry i wasnt here when your losses were suffered and thankyou fro helping me. its spesh hard as it was my brithday yesterday without him, thanku all again. ime here to talk to u guys if u need.
Clara xxx

Subject: Hey there!

My bro died when i was 9 years old. He passed away when he wuz almost 13. Im almost 13! It is like a curse in my school 4 someone to die in 7th grade. I m really scared im gonna be the one just like my bro!

plez help!

Subject: (no subject)

hello...iam really sorry to haer about ur bro..i lost mine last april thru murder..he was 25..and was the best guy ever..he was kind caring funny and all the girls loved him!! he loved life and even when i feel like iam so alone i know hes watchin over me and i am gonna try 2 make my life better 4 him. I know exactly how uy feel..no one understamnds ex my mum..my mates n boyf could nver understand. if u wanna chat just message me :) be strong tho cos ur bro would want u to.

Subject: message for clara

sorry it took so long to reply thank you for the support it really helps to know someone else understands a little bit about what ive been through hope to hear from you soon kelsx

This thread has been closed