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Message from: kezzyanna - 19 Feb 04

Subject: 3 years

i havent wrote a message on here for ages. things have changed a little bit. i recently became a Christian, which has helped me alot through xmas and some tough times. i am going to talk to some one about my dad. the big test is that it is going to be 3 years on the 1 st march. i miss him so much, i has already felt like a life time with out him, can i face any more? i know i have all the people around me who care and i have my faith, but sometimes i just want my dad! thank you for reading this. kezs xxx

Subject: your dad

hi
I think you've done really well managing these 3 years without your dad, I lost my mum from cancer recently and I know how each day can be tough. It's so dificult I know when you just want them... I just try to remember that God knows what he's doing even if we don't understand and that there is going to be another life with mum one day. My Godmother gave me an old Gaelic blessing on the day of the funeral which has helped me- the gist of it was: "until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand."
Lots of luv to u

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thank you for replying. that saying is great and i am sure it will help me through some difficult times. It is getting tougher as the 1st march is coming, but i have to get on with it.
i am sorry to hear about your mum, i understand what you are going through, so if u want to talk we can talk through this website, i come on here most days. i hope we can help each other
kezs xxxxx

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I hope your week is going ok. I'll be thinking about you on the 1st March. What have you done before? It'll be a really tough day I know and you're going to have to be so strong! That's horrid that, when you have to be so brave and all your friends have never lost someone so very, very close to them. Do you find that? Plse write back luv Jenny

Subject: 3 years

Hi Kez,
I just wanted to let you know I'm thinkin of you today, on your dads 3rd anniversary.

I'm really glad you have found some strength in your faith especially around christmas, which can be so hard, I hope you can continue to feel supported in this way.

I know what you mean when you say it feels like a lifetime already, sometimes I'm amazed how much time has passed since my parents died because the pain goes on.

I hope you get through today okay, knowing there are lots of people that care.

Love
Alexis
xxx

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