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message no. 2502

From: Chloe

Subject : my dad and my friend
I'm fifteen and my dad died in April this year, and then two weeks ago my friend was knocked over and killed. I thought I was doing ok with everything but I can now see that I'm not. I feel like I'm right back at the beginning with it all, and I miss my dad so so so much, especially as he would be the one to cheer me up and help me through these kind of things. I also really miss my friend, and so does everyone around me, and so I feel like there is no one there to be strong for me, like all my family are in bits about my dad, and all my friends are in bits about our friend. So no one is happy. I feel alone, but whenever anyone offers to talk about things I can't think of anything worse. I don't know what to do, I feel so depressed all the time, I've lost my appetite, I constantly feel sick because I'm so scared and worried about everything, and about what's gonna happen next. It's all too much and I just want things to be normal. I can't deal with feeling like this.

Reply from: Georgie

hello, my dad died in april too.. it's such a heartbreaking experience; i don't think i could feel any worse than i do so i can't begin to imagine how you feel. but this is as bad as it can get right? things will only look up and everything with get a bit easier. everybody should get through it together :) but you should always remember that even though you're one day from seeing them last but you're one day closer to seeing them again.. always here, you strong, strong girl! xxxx

See also: Georgie's poem

Reply from: Chloe
yeah, I suppose it can only get better. I think that when I get back to school I'm going to try councilling, so I can try to talk to someone about things. Yeah, I've never thought about it that way before, I've always been thinking the time apart.. but now I think I'll think about it that way. Thank you so much xxxxxx
Reply from: Sam
Subject :
hi, my mum died in april this year.. i really wish there was an up.. if only i could turn back time

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