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From: Lyndsay

Subject:
Mam
I lost my mam in 1998 to bowel cancer and she was my friend not just my mam, I still miss her lots every day. I was 17 and my sister was 10. Sometimes people ask where she lives and when I say she died they say eh sorry. Some people say parents are just their parents.



Reply from: Danielle
Subject : mum
i lost my mum three years ago iam now 14 .people ask where my mum and dad are and i say they have died and then they say sorry and it feels awkuard .my mum was my friend i was mum carer i looked after her because she had kidney faluer me and mum only had each other because my dad died two weeks befor my first birthday .me and mum have always been together i would refuse to go to school because when i did i would come home and find people telling me mum is in hospital .when i was 9 i was taken in to care because social services knew mum could not look after me .mum still came and visited me untill may 19th when her kidneys stopped and she died .i miss her so much and i feel it is so unfair i have to live life without her i know how you feel lyndsay
Reply from: Georgina
Subject : :'(
Hi Lyndsey
i lost my Mum 4 months ago to Bowel Cancer, so i know what you went through.
It's the cruelest disease ever!!
It helps me to think that she isnt suffering anymore and that she's gone to a better place.
Even though she left me behind and it hurts so much.
But at least she is not in pain and unhappy anymore.
People say it gets easier but at this time it's hard to believe them.
Just stay strong (easier said then done i know)
Take Care xx

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