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message no. 2437
| From: cindy |
Subject: i lost two brothers
i come on to this site because i live in a very small town i lost two brothers in one week youngest then the eldest im the eldest girl so i feel guilty but nobody talks because they dont want to upset some body else but i do try cindy
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| Reply from: Linda |
Subject : I know how you feel (kinda)
I lost my Grandma and my brother. It is horrible. How long ago did they die if you dont mind me asking? How old were they? I feel exactly the same. You cant talk to anyone because you know that they will get upset then you will feel even more guilty, but you need to talk to someone. Maybe even a best friend? I have spoken to mine because we were in the same situation because she has lost her uncle recently so she said I can talk to her anytime and that she doesnt mine. I'm sure you have a friend who will listen to you. I dont know how old you are, but maybe going to the Doctors could also help you and your family. Bereavement is a time when fanilys need to be close and talk about the dead people with each other. (it does help a lot). How are you feeling now? Do you ever feel that you never siad goodbye propperly? I do, because i didnt. My Grandma died in hospital the next day after i saw her and i never gave her a hug or nothing. That is why i'm partly feeling guilty.
Talk to you soon Cindy. Hope some of that helps.
xxxxx
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| Reply from: Erin P |
Subject : My brother
hi my name is erin my brother was killed in afghanastan Please reply back I need someone to talk to who has had the same experiance
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| Reply from: Beth |
Subject: hi cindy,
i no how you feel, i lost my little brother n then four years later i ;lost my eldest brother, its really hard n i no wat you meant by not wanting to talk to anyone, it makes you feel guilty because then they get upset, i have now realised that, i still cant talk to family about it but i talk to my best friend, he understands as he recently lost his dad, i really hope your okayy, if you need to talk (even tho you dont no me)you can, beth x
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