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From: Cath

Subject: Mum xxx
Hello
My m8 lost her dad not long ago and she told me about this website so iv gone on it ever since....
My name is Cath and im 12 years old. 4 years ago i lost my mum due to Cancer. She had cancer for about 2 yrs. I remeber a few days be4 she went to hospital for the last time she was lying on the bed and she had a VERY high temperature so my dad foned the hospital. Me + my brother were singin the song "Every lil thing is gunna be alright" but it turned out it wasnt.
The new years eve be4 my brother (who is 17) told me that he went into my mum+dads room and my mum was staring outside looking at everything. My brother asked is she ok and she replied: This is gunna be the last new years eve i see. When my brother told me this story i cried so hard.
My mum was the best women ever and she still is. She fought things so hard and never complained.
I get SO angry wen ppl complain about the stupidest things and u see people that have suffered and died.
I LOVE MY MUM SO MUCH AND I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HER BACK...! XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
If any of you;s have suffered something like me recently then if u lke share it with me and ill help u throo it ...xxxxxxxxx


Reply from: bethany
Subject : i am the same
hello.my mum died 4 yrs ago 2day.i am 11 now.omg.i no how u feel iv been der. my mum waz fightin 4 her life wif cancer.once she went in2 hospital she waz allowed 2 cum bak out. but and dat very n8 she loked herself in da bathrum.finaly ma dad managed 2 get in and she waz bleedin like mad.plz remeber i waz only 6 then.ma dad rung da ambulance and she stayed in da hospital 4 1yr she never came out.

i waz at infant school doin a wordseach when my dad walked though the door of ma class rum.he explaind 2 ma teacher and tuk me home!

i still luv ma mum i will do anyfing 2 c her again. luv u mummy.xxx

Reply from: Emily
Subject : My mummy
my mummy died 5 yrs ago. I was 6 yrs old. She'd suffered from cancer for 3 yrs. I find it really hard to cope & don't know how I should feel. My daddy tries hard to help but I sometimes dont want to talk to him about mummy in case I make him sad too. He wants me to try & talk to someone who is trained to help but I feel silly & wont know what to say.It hurts so much that I dont really have any memories of my mummy. I think of her every minute of every day. I'd do anything to have her back.

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