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From: Naomi

Subject: Nanna
Im 19 and my nanna died 5months ago. I just cant seem to get out this rut im stuck in, all i seem to do nowadays is cry, and its pushing everyone close to me away, i drive to her house every week and just sit outside expecting to see her, i somtimes even ring her house to see if she will pick up, but she never does.

I dont have anyone to talk to because i know i sound like a broken record.

This site and everyone elses messages have brought great comfort knowing im not the only one who feels this way about someone they have loved and lost.



Reply from: Annie
Subject : me too
I'm 19 too and lost my nanny in April. I feel really isolated and lonely because she was the person I would have confided in.

Its difficult to talk to friends who don't really understand what you are going through. Four weeks ago I started going to Counselling and it has helped just because I get to talk about my dear nanny for an hour a week.
I don't know if it is something you would consider.
ps. i too still ring her phone and re-read the texts she sent me.
Reply from: Naomi
Subject : Yes...
Yes i think your suggestion may work, sometimes i feel like im over reacting and i should keep it to myself but knowing that you needed some help makes me feel less silly for not coping very well.

I really do appreciate your message its good to know that im not the only person feeling this way about my nanna.

Thankyou   x x x x

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