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message no. 2319
| From: Naomi |
Subject: Nanna
Im 19 and my nanna died 5months ago. I just cant seem to get out this rut im stuck in, all i seem to do nowadays is cry, and its pushing everyone close to me away, i drive to her house every week and just sit outside expecting to see her, i somtimes even ring her house to see if she will pick up, but she never does.
I dont have anyone to talk to because i know i sound like a broken record.
This site and everyone elses messages have brought great comfort knowing im not the only one who feels this way about someone they have loved and lost.
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| Reply from: Annie |
Subject : me too
I'm 19 too and lost my nanny in April. I feel really isolated and lonely because she was the person I would have confided in.
Its difficult to talk to friends who don't really understand what you are going through. Four weeks ago I started going to Counselling and it has helped just because I get to talk about my dear nanny for an hour a week.
I don't know if it is something you would consider.
ps. i too still ring her phone and re-read the texts she sent me.
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| Reply from: Naomi |
Subject : Yes...
Yes i think your suggestion may work, sometimes i feel like im over reacting and i should keep it to myself but knowing that you needed some help makes me feel less silly for not coping very well.
I really do appreciate your message its good to know that im not the only person feeling this way about my nanna.
Thankyou x x x x
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