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From: Cat

Nice to see how many people can come on here and say whats happened to them. Most people I know don't understand.
I lost my boyfriend a year ago in June, the day before his 21st Birthday, found electrocuted in a power station, a long story of which I wont get into but of which the inquest couldn't come up with any logical reason why he died.
I still can't put into words what I feel and find it best to push it aside even after a year, I get shakey hands even as im typing now and if talking about it laugh like it's a joke, lightens the mood. As it seems with a lot of people on here, people just seem to forget after a while.
Anyway yeh I don't know what more to say except, I'm so sorry for everyone's losses

Reply from: Ruth
Subject : Cat's Message
Hello Cat,

This is the first time I have been on the board and the first message I read was yours. I just wanted you to know how sorry I was and that I understand. My boyfriend was killed on 14th May 2008. He would have been 24 on the 21st May. He was on his way to meet me and had a car accident. He was killed outright. We had been together 18 months and wanted to marry. We had to go through the inquest process as well. I'm not sure if any of this will help but I wanted you to know that you're not alone and that I read your message and thought of you. I miss Rob every day and I love him with all my heart, but I am slowly beginning to learn to live with this. Give yourself as much time as you need and let yourself think about him and remember the good times you had together. I wish you all the best. xxxxx

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