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Message from: Lucinda - 13 Jan 04

Subject: My Dad

Hi my Dad died last week his funeral is tomorrow.
I love him more than anybody in the world, and I will always will.
I just want to say thanks because reading the messages which have already been left is helping me to come to term with it, even though it stil hurts, I know there is people out there who have lost close family and I know they have come through it, which gives me hope. Thanks everybody. Lou

Reply from: Adi - 15 Jan 04

Subject: Dads

Dads are one of the most wonderful things in the world, they know how to make you smile, know what you like to do and just like to show how much they care about us. My dad died in september and god it still hurts. By the time you read this, the funeral will probably have happened so i hope it went well. I know this is probably a hard question to answer, but was your dad buried or cremated. My dad was buried and the graveside was the hardest part, i was crying so loud i was almost screaming. If you're around my age(I'm 13) you already have so much to deal with, and when someone close to you dies, it feels like your whole world collapses, doesn't it. I've found reading everyones messages to me has helped, but there's still a big empty gap in my life where dad was. I know there's not much I can say to help the pain, most people don't know ehat to say to me. But it does help me to know that people care. Even people I've never met in my life, cos i think everyone who posts here truely understands. Lou, good luck, your dad loves you and he's watching over you, love adi, 13 xxx

Reply from: Nicky - 16 Jan 04

Subject: (no subject)

I'm sorry 2 hear bout ure dad. i'm 13 n mi dad died bk in march i miss im soooo much n i no how hard da funeral iz.
If u eva need sum 1 2 tlk 2 i'm hear 2 listen
Luv Nicky xXx

Reply from: Lucinda - 19 Jan 04

Subject: Dad

Hi my Dad was buried, it was difficult because im usually really emotional, but on the day I wasn't, I don't think its hit me yet that he has gone. I know what you mean about your world collaspses, mine has, Im hoping I can start to build it back up again and make him proud of me.

Reply from: adi - 20 Jan 04

Subject: even in death

He'll always be proud of you, he would have been anyway. My brother spoke on the phone with him the day before he died and he said he was happy and proud of all of us. Reading mesages from everyone else is helping me because I know people understand and care. I'm thinking of you. luv adi x

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